Most people that know me, know that I’m a bit of a home body. I like to be at home. I love it when people visit me, yes, but I plain and simply just like to be at home. So, a few weeks ago when the opportunity to make a big drive to Michigan came up, I, well, I freaked out.
A good friend who lives in Toronto decided that she was going to go, and had room for me in her car. The biggest problem? I had no passport.
After a good bit of running around, jumping through hoops, and the like, a lot of prayer, frantic emailing to check on the status of said passport, it was finally clutched in my grubby hands.
Commence freakout.
Was I seriously going to drive 8 ish hours to see a bunch of women who I’d never even met before? Was I going to get to meet my old business partner?? Was I going to attempt to cross the dreaded border? Risking life and limb to drive across that very very long bridge?
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There it is! The Michigan sign! After four hours of delightful conversation, some slight panicking at the border, a border guard who was very surprised that we were meeting with people that we had met on an “online cloth diaper sewing board,” here we were in the US!
Can I just say that I am oh so very glad that I went?
These women, these women are amazing. I adore each and every one of them.
I am no stranger to meeting people in person that I originally met online. One of my very best friends, AmyJ, visited us two years ago. We’ve been saving up so that our whole family can go and see her since that trip, and when this opportunity came up, I was able to go!
This is Bonnie and her little guy Charlie. That baby is about the snuggliest sweetest little thing you have ever seen. Bonnie and I used to have a business called Fishsticks and Jam, and we’ve been online friends for many years now. I was pretty nervous about meeting her, you know, all those thoughts of, will she like me? What if I’m not really the same in person?? What if she bans me from her friends list on facebook? I would be devastated!
Now, I can’t say as to what she thinks of me in real life, but I feel like my friendship with Bonnie is even more solid. She is absolutely just as lovely and sweet in real life as she is online. Even though she talks funny.
I am very thankful to be able to count her as one of my very closest friends. It certainly doesn’t hurt that she’s such a talented pattern designer. heh.
And then there’s AmyJ. And her sweet little girls. It was so amazing that they completely remembered me and were instantly comfortable. The first morning, Amari climbed right into bed with us, and curled right up in my arms. It is never awkward with AmyJ and I. Even tho we may be physically apart for long stretches of time, it’s just so natural when we’re together.
And oh the other women there. Dawn, and Katie, and Katie, and Laura, and Gina, and Jill… and a bunch of other people that I’m sure that I’m missing.
I received an official babywearing lesson from Dawn. AmyJ’s Eliana was my very willing model.
She kept saying, “Turn that way, Jamie, I want to see what’s over there.” And whenever I asked her if she wanted down, she emphatically said no, and snuggled even closer into my back.
It’s kind of funny when you know someone online. You think that you know what they’re like, but oftentimes, you are completely and totally wrong. That weekend? I was wrong about so many things and in such good ways.
I was not, however, wrong about the way most of those United Statesians talk. We had many many laughs about the slight differences in our speech and ways of life.
This is Bonnie, Gina, Samantha (Bonnie’s adorably sweet 13 year old. Beth would not let me try to smuggle her back to Canada. sigh.) and Beth.
Gina was a hoot. And her very very tall husband was such a good sport meeting up with all these potential axe murderers.
Her kids were beyond adorable as well. Really, all the kids were. There was some running amok, but all in all it was such an amazing time.
It’s funny how sometimes you just feel like you click with people. I definitely felt that way about Gina and her sweet kids. It’s really too bad that she talks funny, or we could really be good friends. heh.
There were just so many people that I chatted with that I can’t even begin to remember everyone without leaving someone out. Jill went to the yarn store with us, and we all happily fondled yarn there. Fondling is free, you know.
After some tears in the leaving, and a small meltdown from Eliana who thought that I was going back to Ohio with her, Beth and I were once again on our way.
To Joann Fabrics.
Seriously.
Beth and I walked in the doors, and stood there for probably two minutes with our mouths open.
We have nothing, and I mean nothing, like that here.
Then we hit Target, and Trader Joe’s, and filled up on super cheap gas.
I do have to say, as awesome as the weekend was, we were very happy to see Canada in the distance.
Looking back at the weekend, I still can’t even believe that I did it. That I got to connect with so many wonderful women, that they really were wonderful. It’s amazing how people from such diverse backgrounds, belief systems, heck, even countries, could connect and chat and craft together so nicely.
I can’t wait to do it again.